For men serious about lasting change — during and after their Respect programme
Welcome to the Respect Club
Ongoing training and support to control your anger, stay calm and create calmer, happier and more loving relationships.
Because real change doesn’t stop when your Stopping Violence programme ends — it starts there.
Get the tools, coaching, and community you need to:
✔ Stay in control of your anger
✔ Communicate with clarity and respect
✔ Keep learning, growing and developing, even when life gets stressful
✔ Live with calmness. Act with self-respect.
And know you’re not doing this alone.
(All for just $47/month — a small monthly commitment to support real, lasting change.)
From First Steps to Lasting Change
Whether you’ve just started your Respect programme or you’re nearing the end, one thing is certain:
Real change doesn’t happen all at once — it’s something you build over time.
It takes consistency. Support. And a place to keep showing up — even when life gets tough, stress kicks in, or old patterns try to return.
That’s why the Respect Club exists.
It gives you the tools, coaching, and community to help you stay on track with your anger, build healthier relationships, and keep growing into the kind of man you want to be.
It’s for men who are ready to:
✔ Take control of their anger — without shutting down
✔ Communicate calmly and respectfully — especially under pressure
✔ Keep learning, applying, and developing long after the weekly Respect sessions end
No lectures. No judgment. Just honest conversations, practical support, and real accountability — at your pace, on your terms.
If you’re serious about real change, this is the next step.
What You Get Inside the Respect Club
The Respect Club gives you ongoing support, structure, and practical tools — so you can keep making progress, even after the weekly sessions end.
Here’s what’s included in your membership:
The Core Curriculum: The Complete Anger Management System
This powerful 7-module course summarises the essential tools you learn in the Respect programme to help you manage your anger, improve your relationships, and stay in control — even when life throws challenges your way.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
● What anger really is — how it works, why it shows up, and how to stop it controlling your life
How to de-escalate conflict fast — with practical tools to stay grounded and respond, not react
How to communicate with calm and respect — especially when emotions are running high
How to take full responsibility for your actions — no blame, no excuses, just growth
How to rebuild trust and repair damaged relationships — by showing up in new, consistent ways
How to create lasting change — with simple daily habits that support the man you want to be
You’ll get all 7 video modules the moment you join, plus simple action steps you can apply right away. No fluff, no waiting — just clear, practical guidance.
The Core Curriculum: The Complete Anger Management System
This powerful 7-module course summarises the essential tools you learn in the Respect programme to help you manage your anger, improve your relationships, and stay in control — even when life throws challenges your way.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
● What anger really is — how it works, why it shows up, and how to stop it controlling your life
How to de-escalate conflict fast — with practical tools to stay grounded and respond, not react
How to communicate with calm and respect — especially when emotions are running high
How to take full responsibility for your actions — no blame, no excuses, just growth
How to rebuild trust and repair damaged relationships — by showing up in new, consistent ways
How to create lasting change — with simple daily habits that support the man you want to be
You’ll get all 7 video modules the moment you join, plus simple action steps you can apply right away. No fluff, no waiting — just clear, practical guidance.
Option 2: Control Your Anger Today
Ready to take control of your anger today? My powerful online coaching program is designed specifically for people who are ready to make real anger changes without the need for face-to-face sessions.
This program has been refined over 30+ years and has already helped more than 15,000 men and women transform their lives. If you’re looking to control your anger, master your emotions and create calmer, happier and more loving relationships, this system is your roadmap to success.
Why Work With Me?
As perhaps New Zealand's most experienced anger management counsellor, for over 30 years I’ve specialized in helping people control their anger and transform their lives.
With more than 15,000 success stories, I know what works and what doesn't—and I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
Your anger doesn’t have to define you. You can learn to control you anger and create calmer, happier and more loving relationships.
Take Action Today
The insights you’ve gained from this quiz are just the beginning. Now is the time to take the next step:
Every big change starts with one small decision. Make yours today.
What Others Are Saying
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"I can’t believe how much the Complete Anger Management System changed my life."
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"I’ve tried other programs before, but nothing worked like this."
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PAUL H., TAURANGA
"I didn’t think it was possible to change."
"I didn’t think it was possible to change, but this program proved me wrong. I’ve never felt more at peace with myself and my emotions."
THERESA K., QUEENSTOWN
"I walked away feeling hopeful and in control for the first time in years."
"The free call with Alastair was a turning point for me. He helped me see exactly what was fueling my anger and gave me simple steps to start changing immediately. I walked away feeling hopeful and in control for the first time in years."
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